SELF-ESTEEM THERAPY
Self-esteem is what we think of ourselves. When it’s positive, we have confidence and and make personal choices and decision based in self-respect. When our self-esteem is high we are content with ourselves and our abilities — in who we are and our competence.
Healthy self-esteem makes us resilient and hopeful about life. It requires that we’re able to honestly and a realistically assess our strengths and weaknesses. Women with high self-esteem are not too concerned about others’ opinions of them.
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Self-concept is related to self-esteem. Self-concept is the perception that we have of ourselves, our answer when we ask ourselves the question “Who am I?” It is knowing about one’s own tendencies, thoughts, preferences and habits, hobbies, skills, and areas of weakness. In order to have healthy self-esteem is it important to have developed our self-concept or sense of self.
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Self-esteem affects not only what we think, but also how we feel and behave. It has significant ramifications for our happiness and enjoyment of life. It considerably affects events in our life, including our relationships, our work and goals, and how we care for ourselves and others.
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Impaired self-esteem negatively impacts our ability to manage adversity and life’s disappointments. All of our relationships are affected, including our relationship with ourselves. When our self-esteem is impaired, we feel insecure, compare ourselves to others, and doubt and criticize ourselves.
We neither recognize our worth, nor honor and express our needs and wants. Instead, we may self-sacrifice, defer to others, or try to control them or their feelings toward us to feel better about ourselves. For example, we might people-please, manipulate, or devalue them, provoke jealousy, or restrict their association with others.
Consciously or unconsciously, we devalue ourselves, including our positive skills and attributes, making us hyper-sensitive to criticism. We may also be afraid to try new things, because we might fail.
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Self-acceptance is similar to self-esteem, but is less about feeling bad and more about loving yourself as you are, flaws included.
Self-acceptance means knowing no one is perfect and understanding that everyone has value – including you. A sense of humour is a great way to develop self-acceptance. Laughing at yourself from time to time can help you to accept your unique qualities and promotes a sense of well-being.
How can counseling help?
Our team can assist in helping you to develop your self-concept. Our purpose is to help empower women and build your self-esteem because we believe that all women deserve to feel their best and act within the most excellent version of themselves. Our safe and accommodating space with each of our empathetic counselors will carve out your challenges and support your journey to we embrace every part of yourself.
CLASSES & EVENTS
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Group Facilitator: Monica Manuel, MS, LPC
Time: Thursday, September 5, 2024 Thu, Oct 17, 2024 6:30PM - 8:00 PM
Location: Virtual
Format: Small group; limited to 10 members.
Cost: $399 per person. Deposit required.
The Art of Self-Care is designed for women who are ready for a 7-day transformative experience that will deepen your relationship and connection to the mind and body. Each day will start with an evening meditation, followed by a women's circle with a focus on physical, mental and spiritual rejuvenation. Enjoy a custom blend of self-care rituals carefully curated from our menu of sensory experiences. You will finish the workshop with a sense of renewal and increased vitality, as well as the inspiration to continue a healthier lifestyle at home.
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Group Facilitator: Taneisha Moss, MS, LPC
Time: Tuesdays; 7AM-7:45AM
Location: Virtual
Format: Small group; limited to 8 members.
Enrollment: Open
Morning Stress Relief: Drop-In Class - Tuesday Mornings @7am: One of the most useful and grounding ways of attending to our body is the practice of relaxation. Relaxation is a universal practice for developing calm, inner peace, and embodied awareness. In this studio class we will share contemplative silence, reflect on our inner selves and nature. To complete the experience we will conclude with the vibration calming inner peace and healing sound.